Right now
They seem restless
What may be happening
Pacing and fidgeting are frequently a body with nowhere to put itself, and they often peak in the late afternoon. Restlessness usually needs an outlet, not a correction.
What to try right now
- Walk with them rather than asking them to sit.
- Give the hands a real job — folding, sorting, carrying something light.
- Once movement settles, offer weight across the lap and sit beside them.
- Keep the room quieter and warmer as the light drops.
Try saying
"Walk with me a minute, then we'll sit."
"Would you help me with this? It'll only take a minute."
A Bella Box item that may help
Bella offers practical, dementia-informed suggestions. This is not medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. If you are worried about someone’s health or safety, contact their care team or local emergency services.